Beyond Boundaries: Learning to Trust Again in Relationships

Table of Contents:

Foreword by Henry Cloud
Introduction: Don't Settle

Part 1. Understanding the Problem
1. The Draw to Relationship 
2. The Damage Arrives 
3. Boundaries and What They Accomplish 
4. The Return of Desire

Part 2. Knowing when You're Ready
5. You Admit the Hurt and Receive Support
6. You Understand Your Own Past Choices
7. You Can Connect the Dots 
8. You Grieve and Let it Go 
9. You Develop Growth Friendships 
10. You Trust Your Defining Boundaries 
11. You Let Your Values Transform Your Desires 
12. You Know Which Risks Are Worth. Taking and Which Are Not 

Part 3. Knowing when the Other Person is Ready 
13. Does This Person Care About His or Her Impact on You? 
14. Is This Person (Really) Connected to Good People? 
15. Can This Person Handle a Relationship with You? 
16. For Dating and Marriage: Does This Person Go Beyond Passion?  
17. Is the Big Problem Being Solved the Right Way? 

Part 4. Moving into the Relationship 
18. The Talk You Must Have 
19. Take a Risk 
20. Deal with Speed Bumps 
21. How Far Can You Go? 

Conclusion: Beyond Boundaries into Your Best Life 
Notes